Little tots

How can one helps a person who lacks confidence and full of troubles?Well, how can I help? I think I might face a huge blank wall since I myself is also a person who sometimes lack confidence. However, I think, because I have God in my life, all these problems seem so small. I always remember this sentence, "tell the problem I have a BIG God". Or something like this. Can't exactly remember it. Indeed, our God is omnipotent. He is able to carry us through. But how often can we really give up all our doubts and allow Him to carry us through? How often do we find ourselves in little faith?I do. I find myself in little faith plenty of times. I have questions and doubts. I try to solve my problems by myself. Although I do carry my problems to Him, I did not put my total faith in Him. Oh, I, of weak faith! What most of us lack of is prayers. Daniel was able to practise his great faith through prayers. I always like the story of Daniel. I think he is indeed a great man to model after.Confidence. Where can we boost our confidence? Through our faith. What happens when our faith fail us? Where can we get our confidence? Most people turn to their friends and family members. We feel better from hearing words of encouragement from our close ones. So, how do I exactly help a friend who lacks confidence?A person who feels insecure and unstable.
I really don't know where to start.
But sometimes, I ponder whether I should offer more help than I should. Mom always says, it impossible for a male and a female to be best friends, they are either a couple or enemies. Is it really true? I refuse to believe it. I believe we can all be good friends. Or am I too naive?
It would be a lie to say I have totally no more feelings towards him. But, I can definitely say, it is more of a friendship feeling. I do feel for him and hope to be able to help him in whichever ways he needs me to. I mean, I seriously want to help a friend. Especially, one of my good friends. I do not have many friends. And if I do not offer this small help to my small circle of friends, who would I be left with in the end? Well, I might still have my friends in Christ, BUT, the act of giving is more important than receiving.
It is late at night, and my brain is malfunctioning. It is time I hit the sack.