Last week, I was still looking forward to my 21st birthday. Been thinking how I want to spend the day. Most of friends threw a chalet. But I thought that was so common, and it took up too much time and effort. Besides, I have to prepare for exams, can't really afford the extra time. Then thought of doing a trip, maybe to Thailand with YY and Siying, but then again, we are all broke and well, we've got our committments. Then thought of throwing a buffet in church, but again, we all are broke and I see no purpose in such an event. So I thought maybe I can do something like... in remembrance of childhood like going to the zoo... JY isn't any romantic sort, so usually I have to come up with ideas where to go and what to eat and what to do, sometimes, places get abit boring coz my ideas are limited, sometimes wish he could come up with something nice and well, loving? But again, we are much restrained. Finally decided to go Sentosa, go to Underwater World, take cable car, then go watch musical fountain. Then my mom n sis saz they want to come along, ok, fine... Then the night b4 we are going to watch harry potter premiere... plus Uncle is lending us his car... wow, all sound well, pretty fun and interesting... start planning routes and stuff...
then came the problem... he dunno how to tell his parents he want to take leave... okay, u may think it weird, why does he needs to ask his parents' permission to take leave... well, they feel that after a week of so many public holidays, now still want to take leave... then he would have lose out (coz he's a temp guy) got work then got pay, no work no pay... and he couldn't think of the reason to saz to his parents for taking a day off... no, he can't say he want to accompany his gf... coz well, we think we are not ready for tat yet... so...
in the end, he ended up with a few hrs off... he saz morning he would drive us to sentosa, then evening come n pick us up... well well well, how fun can tat be? not that i dun like going wif my mom and sis... but still... its abit spoilsport yet...
then i told my mom loz... she saz "huh! he want to drive to work...very expensive to park there lehz...blah blah blah... aiyoh, u dun like that lah... he's someone else's son... later something happen how..." okok, my fault... now what? no car? plans gone?
well, maybe im very inconsiderate lah... dunno how to think for him and understand... but... well, its my 21st bdae mah... once in a lifetime lehz... well, then again, no big deal hoz... alot of my frens also spend their bdaes mugging or sleeping at home... or alone... its just another day... so, maybe i just selfish lah... never go n understand him...n his family's weird system...
so, maybe i should just stay home n mug... i really got alot of work to catch up...
it doesn't matter much... just maybe cry for awhile ok liao ba...
then came the problem... he dunno how to tell his parents he want to take leave... okay, u may think it weird, why does he needs to ask his parents' permission to take leave... well, they feel that after a week of so many public holidays, now still want to take leave... then he would have lose out (coz he's a temp guy) got work then got pay, no work no pay... and he couldn't think of the reason to saz to his parents for taking a day off... no, he can't say he want to accompany his gf... coz well, we think we are not ready for tat yet... so...
in the end, he ended up with a few hrs off... he saz morning he would drive us to sentosa, then evening come n pick us up... well well well, how fun can tat be? not that i dun like going wif my mom and sis... but still... its abit spoilsport yet...
then i told my mom loz... she saz "huh! he want to drive to work...very expensive to park there lehz...blah blah blah... aiyoh, u dun like that lah... he's someone else's son... later something happen how..." okok, my fault... now what? no car? plans gone?
well, maybe im very inconsiderate lah... dunno how to think for him and understand... but... well, its my 21st bdae mah... once in a lifetime lehz... well, then again, no big deal hoz... alot of my frens also spend their bdaes mugging or sleeping at home... or alone... its just another day... so, maybe i just selfish lah... never go n understand him...n his family's weird system...
so, maybe i should just stay home n mug... i really got alot of work to catch up...
it doesn't matter much... just maybe cry for awhile ok liao ba...
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